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The most qualified candidate doesn’t always get the job
Why trying your best isn’t enough and what to do instead
Feb 24
What recruitment taught me about job searching
And what I’d do differently now
Feb 17
If everyone feels behind, maybe no one is
What happens when the rules change but expectations don’t
Feb 10
Why recruiters don’t reply to your messages
And what actually makes a difference
Feb 3

January 2026

What no one tells you about the “hidden job market”
If you’ve been job searching and feeling stuck, read this before you apply again
Jan 27
Your aunt’s job search advice is outdated
Here’s what hiring looks like now and what to do instead
Jan 20
Why “doing great work” isn’t enough
And what actually gets remembered when decisions are made
Jan 13
If you’ve been thinking about changing roles, read this first
The answer you should have ready before the question comes up
Jan 6

December 2025

Before the year ends…
All things considered, we’re good.
Dec 30, 2025
AI and your job search. We need to talk
AI is going to take my job. And your job. And everyone’s job. AAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Dec 23, 2025
Tell me about yourself. The question that makes your brain do the Windows error sound
If you freeze when someone says “Tell me about yourself” you’re not alone.
Dec 16, 2025
So… the salary question. Let’s talk about it.
If you’ve ever had a recruiter ask about your salary expectations and suddenly your soul left your body, this one’s for you.
Dec 9, 2025
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